Author: beccakinla

Ladies: Have you seen "The Heart that Sings" yet?

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Last spring, I enjoyed the fabulous, soul-stirring, ladies-only film by Robin Garbose “The Heart that Sings.” The film is 100% kosher. Not only are performances by ladies only for ladies only, but contain authentically Jewish content. If you didn’t catch the movie the first time around, you can catch it during chol hamoed Sukkot in the following locations: Boro Park, Monsey, Crown Heights, Toronto, L.A., and Lakewood. Follow this link for times and ticket prices:
There’s also a preview available to watch on the website.

And now comes the hard part

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I’m preparing to revise the novel-in-progress.

Many bloggers have recommended the “One Pass Method” of Holly Lisle. For details, see: http://hollylisle.com/how-to-revise-a-novel/ which tries to do everything in one fell swoop from beginning to end.

Others suggest a longer process, saying their revisions take longer than writing their first draft. Yikes! Just the idea makes me want to hyperventilate.
I’ll update you on my trevails. I’m taking a breather for a few days and working on other projects.

I DID IT!

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Yes, it’s true! I finally finished my first novel. Hooray! Of course, I was supposed to finish by Labor Day, and it’s probably pretty terrible, and it’s shorter than I intended, but it’s done. It’s just a first draft…but a complete first draft! And the longest thing I’ve ever written. (I never realized before how it takes a long time to print an entire novel.)
I’m in shock right now. All my nearest and dearest are in bed right now, so I’ll just blog and get to bed.

Bear With Me

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When you actually make it to regular pediatrician visits for all your kids–and you’ve got a few kids–you spend a lot of time with the aforementioned pediatrician. So you shmooze. Over the last couple years, part of our shmooze has been on the topic of his son-in-law’s picture book.

It came out not too long ago, and I have to recommend it, not only is it by a friend of a friend (so to speak), it’s by a local author and actually very worthy of a recommendation. Max Kornell’s Bear with Me is quite a charming book and got lots of giggles out of my kids.

A little boy’s parents bring home someone new to live with them. Someone who takes up a lot of his parents’ attention. Someone who tampers with his belongings and makes him lose sleep at night. Sound familiar? However, this little boy didn’t get a new baby…he got a new bear.

While some of the reviews I’ve read recommend this book for children with new siblings, I think it would be even better for kids with an ADOPTED sibling on the way. Here’s why: the little boy and the new bear are able to enjoy each other’s company rather quickly. It can take a while before newborns are entertaining and engaging. This would probably be good to discuss before a new baby comes home, otherwise your elder children might be disgusted by the family’s new addition.

Other than that little picky point, I highly recommend this funny little book for kids, ages 3-7.

Identifying Your Life’s Mission

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Identifying Your Life’s Mission

The above article (by Sara Yocheved Rigler and appearing this week on Aish.com) explains how to find your “tafkid,” that little sliver of the world that constitutes your mission in life. I encourage you to read it before Rosh HaShanah. I found it very inspirational and the perfect complement to a shiur I attended over the weekend.
Rabbi Simcha Weinberg was visiting our shul over this Shabbos. At seudat shlisheet, he explained that the Yomim Noraim (the Days of Awe) are the when we should not only think about what we’ve done wrong in the past year, but what would it look like if we did it right in the year ahead. He suggested that we should not imagine what we want, but what HaShem’s dream is for us. What does He want from us? Then we can establish some steps to take to get us there.
Of course, He wants us to make peace with other Jews (including family members!). Of course, He wants us to improve in how we follow his mitzvot.
 
But He also wants us to be the best people we can be, using our talents and skills. The article by Sara Yocheved Rigler will inspire you to do just that. What gets you excited about life? How can you use that talent and passion to improve your family, your community, your world?

Sifriyat Pijama B’ America begins!

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My daughter received her first book through Sifriyat Pijama B’ America (which distributes free Hebrew language materials to American children, particularly those with Israeli parents or grandparents) this week. The first selection was Lea Goldberg’s classic Hayeled Hara (The Bad Boy). My children enjoyed the story–about a boy who blames his naughty behavior on the “bad boy” inside him–and found the illustrations quite charming. The directions for parents explain the book connects to the mishnah in Pirke Avos about “Who is the strong man? The one who controls his inclination (for bad).” The message fits perfectly into this season of Elul, where we are supposed to carefully consider our actions and resolve to do better in the coming year. I’m going to see if I can get my bigger kids to read it to the little ones for their own Hebrew language practice.
I should point out that not only are the Sifriyat Pijama B’ America books in Hebrew (with nekudot), but the parent directions are in Hebrew, too. There was hardly any English at all in the entire package. The result: a little fumbling around with a English-Ivrit dictionary in the Klempner household before we could introduce the book to our children.
The program is now at capacity, but will add new members in December. You can get on the waiting list here: